gForce, your thoughts on 'giving up'? How do you give up without totally letting go and convincing yourself that you should D? I feel like if I were to 'give up' right now, i would totally cut her off, be mean and not do her any of the little favors that she asks for everyday. I would just say 'no' and let it go at that. I would let my true, angry, hurt feelings out on her. All of this is not good DBing, sounds like it's a fine line to walk.
Married 6 years D4 D4 S2 seperated: 7/15/08 Dbomb: 9/21/08 status: seperated in same home, meeting with mediator moving toward D current thread