Sooners, I agree with MWG and glam. A card is fine. I used to write my H cards whenever he helped me with something. In my card I would affirm him. But for the most part, I did not use "Love, PH" because I thought it would pressure him. The only times I used "Love, PH" was for his BD or Christmas/Thanksgiving.
BUT this last time, I did NOT use "Love..." in the BD card. I am sure he noticed that I didn't. In a previous post, I described how he called me to thank me for the card/text message. Not sure what his call meant. But since he hasn't initiated contact, all I can assume is that he has NOT changed his mind yet.
Nice dream you had.
Talking about dreams, I had one nice dream last night too. This time, my H was more in the backgorund. It was about me giving a nice present to my SIL's kids. It seemed as if the dream was about an improved R with my SIL (H's sister). It was as if she finally understood and accepted my warmth and kindness.
