This just reinforces the thought that the one that is standing cannot change their spouse. We certainly can have some influence, based on how we treat them, but ultimately it is up to them to change. I appreciate your candor, and I value your advice very highly.I pray for this "change" for my wife, it will be in God's timing and not in mine.I will continue to treat her with love and respect.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023