There is more to it than just the hotel in Stockholm unfortunately. I have the ticket to Dublin for Thursday night, which would mean a night in a hotel in Dublin that night, then the 2 nights in Stockholm, then 3 nights in Dublin since my return ticket is on Wednesday. In my dreamworld H would ask me to stay those days, but that isn't terribly likely...
So unfortunately unless my H has a change of heart, or unless I want to take a big chance on just showing up at the house and saying "I'm staying here", it doesn't seem feasible.
I am thinking of alternatives though. Basically I want to see how Dublin goes, whether we see each other, and if so if it seems like we will be seeing each other again throughout this time. If nothing definite is planned, I think I am going to try and go somewhere for work, like the US, and tack on some vacation. I have 5 days, so could stay with a non-judgmental friend maybe and relax that way. At the same time though, no matter what happens at the end of this, I think it is going to be challenging when I get back to Dublin, so I might need to save those 5 days...
In terms of finances, I think the 180 for me there is that i haven't said anything about it being his employer's fault. Money is actually one thing we never fought about, with the exception of his employer...
OK I have a personal trainer session now. This is something good I'm doing, so I need to be positive!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
