Still trying to smile while all the while feeling a little sick of this process. H IMd again, but only in relation to this big charge. I was light and friendly the whole time, and he said if I could call the bank it would be good as he was at a conference and had no base. I wasn't even planning on continuing the chat, and only asked how it was and if he was presenting. He said "good, busy, I'll chat later, in the middle of something." So aggravating as it's like he has to be in control of every little thing. I wasn't even chatting with him beyond very general pleasantries in response to him. I called the bank and they said they would call him back, so I emailed him to let him know this, and then just a response about how he only has his work phone so they will need to call that and otherwise he doesn't know what to do since it's not his work (that's about 5 times he's told me that). I am really trying to just be nice and easy and make his life as easy as possible, and make sure that each interaction is light and friendly and stress-free. I sent this:
"OK, I'll call the bank again tomorrow then since they are closed now.Good thing is as my bonus was paid this quarter, it doesn't really have too much of an immediate impact. We'll get to the bottom of it though..."
Anyway, still no response to my email about postponing the sessions. This was sent on Sunday. I can't bring it up again, but at some point I am going to have to as I need to know whether to postpone a scheduled session or not.
OK trying to feel positive, trying really hard. I just need to focus on getting through today now. I have not initiated contact, and this is a good thing. I have been friendly, and this is a good thing.
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
