Right now H is putting in 90%, he is scared we'll see what happens and take it from there.
I just feel that sometimes Im'e letting him cross boundries. Right now I think I need to wait it out though because he has shown that maybe the fog is beginning to lift and that he might be ready to come to terms with his issues.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez