I like that one. Sawks, I tell you this from experience. When XH1 and I split, I started dating XH2 almost immediately. Please note they are both XH's. I never allowed myself to grieve. And XH1 was a total abusive jerk. But still, you need time, and I just question whether four months is enough. Also, I have to tell you that I feel that if you have not made the final break, ie D, you have no business pulling someone else into your M, and you are still M, even if only on paper.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..