JAK, I do believe that there comes a time when the LBS just gets tired when it doesn't seem their WAS doesn't seem to be putting forth as much effort. Only you can decide that. I'm sure you have set boundaries and told him that he must put forth effort to hold your marriage together.
I read once that a marriage only works if both partners put forth 100%. We tend to think that it is 50/50 relationship. But we all know that 50% is a failing grade. Is your H only putting forth 50%? Perhaps you should remind him of this.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
