Sounds to me like you did do some stuff for you. Keep it up, keep busy, and when you are ready, try venturing into something new. Keep doing what feels good, what gives you a feeling of accomplishment, even if it doesnt seem to others like fun.

Try making some goals for yourself this week. Maybe, try going to that gym you have a membership for.


Married 6 years
D4
D4
S2
seperated: 7/15/08
Dbomb: 9/21/08
status: seperated in same home, meeting with mediator moving toward D
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