Hey RH sorry I haven't been around much, but it was a rough weekend on the homefront.
The reaction your H is having right now, unfortunately, is very typical. He wants to be in control of everything because he feels so out of control. Just remember this, you cannot control him, but you do not have to let him control you either.
I want you to remember many WAS's have filed for D, and have shelved it. Right now, your H is feeling so many different emotions he does not know which way to turn.
Listen to him, validate his feelings. Remember the two magical words "I understand." Nothing else.
You are not cold, but right now he is looking for any way to appease his own guilt. Keep calm, and do not panic. He is going to go away for a little while, to sulk and try to determine his life. But if you play your cards the way that DR tells you to, it is entirely possible he will come back.
Remember this, the relationship you had with your H is over. It is not a matter of getting that back. It is a matter of creating a new R that will be stronger and better than before.
(((RH))) I know this is going to be hard. Keep the faith.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
