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Re: My life is a telenovela fig #1574721 08/29/08 03:08 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	I am so glad Fig!!! Positive thinking is a must!!! Hugs!!!! Vali Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela BethM #1574810 08/29/08 03:54 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Bethie, you are so right! Time for me to grow! I have such wonderful opportunities before me! I sincerely hope I come out a better person because of this experience. Hugs, V Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1574829 08/29/08 04:01 PM
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ACJ Member A Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 5,369 England	Vali, From your posts on your other thread it is clear that this child of Hs is already born. Is this a recent event or has he been keeping this a secret for a long time? Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1574926 08/29/08 04:52 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 4,054 So Cal K KarenMarieS Member
KarenMarieS Member K Joined: May 2006 Posts: 4,054 So Cal	Quote: sincerely hope I come out a better person because of this experience. you will! already are is my guess, thats the biggest silver lining out of this for me. I hope others think so. you sound good today! Fun weekend planned? Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life

Re: My life is a telenovela KarenMarieS #1575291 08/29/08 08:04 PM
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fig Member F Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota	Vali you are an amazing person and the "better" person is simply stunning!!!

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1577581 09/01/08 10:14 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Vali, Just thinking of you and wanting to wish you a nice week. I hope things are better. Take care. (((HUGS)))

Re: My life is a telenovela ACJ #1578098 09/02/08 02:08 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	ACJ, I believe his child was born in July sometime. However, he has kept the secret of the impending birth for the entire time. It was only by chance that a friend of mine saw him and then i happened to be checking a baby registry when his name and her name popped up. I have no idea why he would not have filed for divorce so much sooner...like when he found out...instead of waiting for me to find out by accident. If he had any integrity he would have told me sooner so we could have gotten the show on the road and perhaps I would be divorced by now. These men do things that are so hurtful to us...and I don't understand it. YOu would think that we were abusing them from day 1 of our marriages...I don't think I will ever understand why LL has hurt me so much. It is like he has intentionally done it. Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela KarenMarieS #1578108 09/02/08 02:16 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	KarenMarie, I don't really know if I am a better person...I have so much inside of me that I have to deal with...I hope that when all is said and done that I AM a better person. Today I feel weird. I have to accept that the person I loved so long is no longer the person I loved. And I don't love the person he is now. And I have to accept that he no longer loves me. That is tough. So today is weird. Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela fig #1578112 09/02/08 02:19 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Fig, I don't feel 'stunning'...I feel sad...i wish I could fast forward and be done with all of this...but then I would lose parts of the lesson and that would not be good. Just feeling sad today I guess. Hugs, Vali Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Truelove #1578116 09/02/08 02:20 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Thanks for stopping by True! You always cheer me up!!! Hugs, Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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