I think deep down he knows what he is doing is wrong. I just think he wants what he wants when he wants. He is very selfish and self centered. He thinks that he can make it up to you by sitting down for coffee. He is going to grace you with his presence and then that should pacify you. Show him you have changed and leave him be. Let him worry about how he has offended you.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
