[/quote]It is encouraging that your H is confiding in a friend--something different for him. I'd love to be a fly on the wall to hear what he's saying.[quote]
CL,
I do have a fly on the wall it is our friend. He will tell me what H is saying if he thinks it will help me. I will never disclose to H about it. Friend wants to help both of us.
H is to the point of almost suffocating me with affection especially after talking to friend on Sunday. Heck last night I could not get out of bed to go to the bathroom without him asking me what I was doing where I was going. Held me all night(not good for hot flashes but loved being held) He is giving hugs and kisses all the time and just plain holding me.
I am afraid that this still is the vicious circle that we have been in for a while now but, who knows.
Bag still packed. H has not mentioned it at all.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 09/02/0801:47 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
