I'm getting the strongest urge to let H know how I think about him lately. I think he's a disgusting sleazebag!!! I guess that wouldn't be very DB of me??? Karen
Karen,
Maybe that's where a few occasional "truth darts" can come in. I find it's best to let a little steam off the top of the kettle every now and again, rather than let the whole damned thing blow, kwim??
Try landing 2-3 each week, and see that it does WONDERS for your self-esteem!
(a good example after the storm might have been "Forget what you think about ME at the moment; Do you even realize how incredibly self-centered it is to not check up on your own children when a tropical storm is coming? Unbelievable." (and then walk away)