He always thinks the answer is coffee as if it will smooth things over.

I don't want to see you get hurt over and over again. Maybe if you said no to coffee he would get the message.

Honestly, it is as if he thinks you will melt each time you see him or something.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19