New month, new strategy

[istherehope]

Thanks JCJ for both posts,

He hasn't reached out again, but if he does I will ask how SA is. I do need a break, I really do, but we need to be financially secure as well for whatever happens, though you're right I am martyring myself a little. I just don't want to go back on my word and overspend. I'll see if I can bring it up in a light way if we have a phone call. Otherwise I have a friend in Hamburg I could go stay with at some point soon, and this would be a cheap trip as well.

ITH