NCB,

I would not be too hard on myself for snooping. All have done it.

In our sitches it does not hurt to snoop IMO.

If you are done, then the more info you have on the "other" side then the better off you are..legally anyway.

Some choose to snoop, some do not. To each his own.

I say it's much better to have "light" cast on the surroundings than to walk around in the "dark".