He told her that she needed to grow up and have a life before she was going to be able to share one with him, and that reconciliation wasn't an option until she had grown enough to feel good about herself and be able to enjoy his company instead of being dependent on it.
I think this is exactly the Rx for my situation, too. My own wife was wise enough to see it on her own, though she did not express it this way.
So I am waiting and praying for those changes. For my part I am getting busy with my own life.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....