HMMM...from a womans point of view, no. The first thing that I withold when angry is any form of communication. She is prob thinking, why shoueld I tell him anything, he can figure it out all on his own, after all I'm DONE with him. It also is prob givening her some kind of sick since of control of the sitch because SHE is calling the shots with the kids. Just wanted to give you my perspective.
Now that you know the space she is in, do not play into it. Sending an email thanking her for being gracious enough to feed the kids on your night will throw her. Make sure it is sinsere though, that sarcasm can not be read into it. I would also make small comments every so often when you see her like, "I will have the kids back by 8 pm tonight. Oh, that blouse looks really nice on you, brings out your eyes. So, hope thats not to late for them to get back home." Just drop in compliments without really seeming to be focusing on her. Again, just another way to help smooth the waters.
Hope a girls point of view helps. Still does not take away the pain and frusteration you must be feeling at these times. Just remember, it has nothing to do with you. Most of what they say is them projecting their own demons back onto us. You are doing great and staying strong.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
