Not sure WHAT the right thing was. You DID take the better road, however. Thats for sure. I tend to agree with Puppy. You don't want to be her bud and you won't be able to believe what she says.
I agree with everybody!!!! For the short-term sitch, I think you did good in a surreal situation taking the high road. For the long term, yeah, probably of all the buddies you want to make, OW would not be a 1st (or 2nd or 3rd choice)! Karen