Uuugh...Saturday after some gentle persuasion to get in bed early, so we wouldn't be doing something at 1 AM, she gave in. Starting things off on the wrong foot like this really set a tense mood. I started caressing her back only to be accused of trying to make a move on the "back door" as I worked my way lower. This has been of limits from day one and I know it... WTF?
To this I stop straddling her, lay down on my side of the bed and ask, "How long have you known me? Why do you think I'm trying to start something there?" Then I say, "Look I know you don't like that and I respect that. I have always respected that. Do you want me or not? Let me know when you want me, otherwise I'm going to sleep now."
"I do want you H."
"If you want me then show me."
So then she kisses and hugs me and we do eventually ML but there's a lot of huffing going on. I don't mean heavy breathing I mean annoyed sighing... oh and yawning too.
It was all very strange and tense... I guess you could say it was a grudge f*%k. Actually it was pretty good sex (yawns and huffs aside) but I then got the, "You wore me out" complaint.
Sunday was ok until we were ready to go somewhere and she got mad about no help with laundry. I finally said, "Look, if you need help tell us, we're no mind readers. We have chore too and we don't get help with them, if you need help fine. Don't get mad if you don't ask though." Then we kind of made up on our way back home.
That night we snuggled and she even caressed my back as I fell asleep. Everything seems to be fine again. I really don't know what to make of this. It's almost like she's messing with my head now.
