You are not rambling Daisy....let it out. Wow H are very similiar auch as the chameleon and having to fit in with friends....we went thtough a really good patch when his friends were all older guys in R/M but just recently when his job re-located him to another store and he started hanging out with younger single guys his whole attitude changed. That's the thing i hate too about him having his own place because now he is in these young kids eyes "the cool guy with his own place", even though I personally think that it's sad that a almost 29 y/o is hanging with 21/22 y/os. But don't worry I won't say that to him.
Hopefully your H will make the right choice and even if he does move in with other guys he will realize how gross it is to live with a bunch of guys and beg you to find a place with him!!
