Karen, I wonder wher OW told her H she was going while on the "vacation"? Is she separated also? So I'm assuming her H was in charge of the kids while she was gone. I can tell she's not much of a mom. Who goes off on vacation right when their kids are starting back to school?
I think their divorce is final I'm pretty sure. So now she and her kids are going out with the kids the past month b/c they don't have to worry about her H anymore. I think they don't worry about me either.
I've been told by friends that know her that she isn't a very good mom, usually their dad I think is the primary caretaker. But H thinks that is great; she's really into career and all and for him that's a plus. He doesn't really value moms that take care of kids and stuff; his mom was a career woman, she worked full-time and went back to college to get her graduate degree. I think both of his parents were somewhat non-involved (they had a nanny) so maybe he sees that as more normal than me. Karen