Hi Lola I guess you need to let Rose have some time to calm down. You need to DB her I guess and give her some space. When she's ready she'll come talk to you and everything will be fine.
As for your XH! He has a self fulfilling profecy because he acts like an idiot and then that's the way people treat him. Maybe you need to look at the positive about him even thought the negatives are probably outnumbering the positives lately.
The song is a cool one and had to laugh at the spelling of the groups name that Coach posted LOL
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*