Sleeper, This is very difficult, but worth a shot. Following the DB principles of Goal Setting, GAL, 180s, etc are the keys here. Of course, the real problem is that other women will notice you long before your XW ever does. Then the question is, when she notices you, will you still be avaiable?
Best of luck, SD
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