"But I read your post and am thinking back to a few other people who had very similar situations. A few guys, even who had children, did not let anyone know where they lived. They thrive on the secrecy and they want to be far from us. I know of at least 2 that lived in campers."

Yes, he wants to be far from me. I can see that now. He does thrive on secrecy. hmmmm. If you can remember who the (2) are who lived in campers, and who the others are who did not let their LBS know where they were, could you post their names here for me? I would love to go read their threads and find out what happened. It's a way for me to process this, you know?

thanks,
poet