Just to let you know things are going really well between H & I. He rang me Friday night not to ask me out, but to see what my plans were for the weekend.... I made sure I was busy all weekend, and even Sunday morning, which is when he might 'pop' over after wakeboarding with next door neighbour. I think he was a bit disappointed, but I to encourage him to make plans to see me, not just stop by when he is free.... H wanted to come and help paint the bathroom, so we casually agreed that we might see each other Sunday afternoon.
H did come over.. I was pretending to have a sleep on my bed. H came and lay on the bed. I lay there for a bit. But then jumped up and got him a drink. Then we sat on the couch talking for a while.
I'm still having mobile phone dramas. And as I was telling H about it, he got really passionate and started saying I'm going to go in and tell the manager to fix my WIFE'S phone. He used the word 'wife' a few times and told me his speech that he would use to get them to give me a new phone. It was very sweet and protective.
Then he started to make a move to go, and I must have said something that made him think I was a bit disappointed, and he said he didnt have to go if I didnt want him to (!!). I kept saying 'we could do something tonight?', trying to get him to think that he needs to take me out. He had other plans and we pashed on the couch for quite a while. I eventually got up, and we agreed that we would meet later for dinner. Anyway we had dinner at a nice restraunt, and a long kiss ny the car. Definitely H is hinting lots about how he would like to go further. And I've been able to be flirty and fun, but not turn him down. I really want him to chase me, but dont want to be controlling.
He must be wondering how I have managed to see him so often and not bring up one R conversation yet. And if H gets a bit deep I always change the subject to light. It feels good.
When I got home from work last night H was there! Such a shock! He was painting the bathroom, but I know he deliberately stayed later to see me (he could have stayed later heaps of other time). So that was nice. I gave him a bit of dinner, but then fortunately I already had plans and had to go out.
I'm working on being encouraging. Its a real 180 for me to support his decisions instead of saying what I would do. I need to work on this the most.
And the possum and the drill flirting must have worked caused that carried over.
