Not much time, but don't no 2 X 4's from me. I've done it.

Also, OW in H's life was 'rescuing' him from me, by the way. Script talk.... Its a cycle. My H fed her lines "woes me, my W is horrible" and OW did the same about her H to my H. They can rescue each other. How else could they get together, what excuse would they have if they were in happy marriages?

Thinking of you.