Her letter to OM was an apology for bothering him at home. Apparetly she had ended up talking to OM's family and it got ugly. W refers to OM's family as his "tenants", several times. It said a lot of mushy stuff and whining about her life, and about what she sees as her duty to defend OM from his family's "abuse".
She's sick, folks.
She bemoans the assertion that she never got that and that OM's "tenants" stood in the way.
Wow, she is certainly sick! My first thought is how could she do this to the OM's family? Then I thought well she had so little regard for her own family, why worry about his? What was I thinking?!!! Oh what a pity that the OM's wife and children are standing in the way of your W's happiness. How dare they do that!
In my case the OW was also married and had children. They both had so little regard for either family or their children.
I do agree that your wife is sick. Sadly, so are alot of other spouses...
NC, hold your head high. You are good man that does not deserve this. You will come out ahead.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
