Thanks Daisy,

It does make sense that now that he actually is aware that there IS a relationship (he really was that far gone before), I need to be even more cognizant of my own behaviors. He's not out of the woods yet, but I think, knowing him, that in another 7-10 days he will be miles ahead of where he is now. He is absolutely amazing in the way he's coped with depression. I can't imagine feeling that bad and working out 6-7 days per week, going to work, eating well, not drinking, and reading self-help books! Seriously I think we could all take some clues from my H in terms of how to self-heal :). Let's just hope he's willing to give the M the same chance!

I haven't been able to find that book in Poland, but when I'm in Dublin, I will look for it. I need some new books like this anyway. I have read DR and Venus and Mars sooo many times already!

Thanks for cheering me on. New month, new strategy, new attitude. I am going to try and remain positive no matter how hard this seems!

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!