NC,
I agree 100% about the children part. We are adults, we are hurt by our spouse's actions, but how can they hurt their children so badly?

My H tends to forget that his a father to two wonderful daughters.

They don't even care apparently what their children think of their wrongdoings. I even asked my H one time, "How would you like it if a man treated one our daughters the way you have treated me?" He replied quietly, "I wouldn't like it." Yet he continues to set such a bad example for them.

All we can hope for is that our children will realize that although we are not perfect, we love our families and want to live life the way it should be lived and set an example for them.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon