Frank, my W was by last weekend and asked where the stainless steel cleaner is so she could polish the refrigerator!! I said she shouldnt have to do that and she said she didnt mind so I handed her the cleaner, a rag and let her polish it.
It has been a long time since she helped clean anything in the house. It will be two years this next Christmas that I can recall.
I am sure there is a myriad of thoughts regarding a simple act like that. It is so hard to pin down the root of the thought process. Whatever it is, I am happy for it.
Imageer, I hope everything works out for your dog. I hope he wont have to go.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God