Hi Daisy,

Oh your poor thing in some ways, but you lucky girl in others. Seems that every time you meet up you ML! Also, he sticks around afterwards, and doesn't just rush out. This is a really good sign.

Also, he is still really open about the counseling, and has not in any way said that he doesn't want to work it out. It sounds like he is just being cautious, and like every other WAS referred to on this board, doesn't want to give false hope until absolutely 100% sure. This doesn't mean he's not 99% sure already though.

I think your sitch seems like one of the most positive ones here. I know waiting is so frustrating, but you only have 2 days to wait. Between now and then can you maybe think of some things to do to make yourself as happy as possible? You really want to go to that session calm and grounded, and ready to face anything. No matter what, even if it's all positive, there will probably still be some difficult emotions to deal with, so take this time now to regroup if you can.

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!