Q&A with the WAS

[istherehope]

Wow thanks for the great responses to my questions!

Out of curiosity, in your case, is your H absolutely opposed to seeing a counselor with you? Would he be opposed to something like an intensive with Michelle? Does your H realize that you were that depressed, and does he realize that that played a part in the things that you said? Do you think if you could get him in front of a therapist who might validate that that kind of behavior is typical for someone suffering depression it might help?

So then a couple more questions about being a WAS too if that's OK...

1) Did you feel guilty while you were the WAW? If so did this play any part in you not wanting to be around your H?

2) Did you doubt your decisions as you made them during the process? Just wondering whether you were confused, or felt like you had clarity?

Thanks!

ITH