Jak,
It is encouraging that your H is confiding in a friend--something different for him. I'd love to be a fly on the wall to hear what he's saying.

I'd still keep those bags packed. It's a powerful message, that needs to be in front of him.

It's also important for you to be comfortable using your own power and influence when needed.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching