Just talked to OW she said that if H talked to her about our phone conversation that she would let me know. He did ask her about it.
Said he was sorry that she is in the middle.

WTH he's the one that put her there!!!

I did find out that he talked to a good friend of ours that knows about us having trouble yesterday when H called to see how he was doing. Our friend was good to him but, also gave him wholly hell asked him what he was going to do about it.

I think this may be good because
#1 He is finally talking to someone. He hasn't said a word to anyone.
#2 He's admitting that there is a problem and that it is his.

Friend doesn't want H to know that I know they have talked and I would never betray that trust.
I do think that friend could be a big help though. friend is also going to mention C to him.

Funny H talked to friend yesterday and came home last night very clingy. That could also be because he is trying to keep me here so that he can continue the way he has been so im'e not counting on anything.


JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez