Hi John, I suppose the fact that she respected your wish not to go to Mexico is a positive for you, isnt it?
You very well know, just as I do and our other friends that the decision or the moment "it is decided" to leave a marriage is NOT the difficult part. What comes after that is the difficult part. You have had a taste in the past, think long and hard before you decide what to do. It seems you are all worked up but maybe, just maybe, your thoughts are not your Ws thoughts as well. Maybe you assume wrongly. Maybe you'll get to listen to the other side of the story tomorrow. Keep your ears and your heart open, it's your wife and family that you love dearly that is in stake here. Be wise, be smart. Nobody said it would be easy or a "once-off" deal (I maybe making up words here, excuse my English ). Love K
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