I am so happy you had a good day with the kids....now that's what I'm talking about ggod job L/P!!!!.Now as far texting her pics.. to tell you the truth I personally would of done the same..I would probably think in the back of my mind ....this will open up her eyes....
But I think that is all wishful thinking on our part..but I am glad the children had fun...now see L/P calling her the Boss Lady sounded to me like a smart comment...did this do anything to her? Did it start anything? I hope not... you did not say it did...
As far as you asking her those questions about finances as my husbands puts it "I CANT TAKE THE PRESSURE AND YOU ARE NOT HELPING"... it goes to show they are all not there...do you really have to cancel her out of the ins. If you do not pay child support then do it... what harm can it do, can you afford it? if so then pay it...do it as a love gesture...
I am so proud of you for doing what you did for the kids....they will always have those memories wish I could of been there to see their faces...and you are right this is her decision on her life right now ... but Honey don't read too much into what she says, what she does,or how she looks...it will burn you as it has me soooo many times...
What you did yesterday keep doing it... and pray pray pray this can not be stopped it must be done everyday...I can't count how many times a day I pray, at my desk, driving,at home, while cooking... not long prayer just me talking to my heavenly father. It really helps honey, believe me ok.
Let me give you an example, because unless you actually experience Gods presence a person will never understand..like when I start to think about what my husband has done to his family..I want to call him and tell him off.. it's all your fault...I hate her for what she has done to our family...you have and done so much harm to us...and the attacks of the enemy go on and on....right then I start praying... The Lord's Prayer and every single scripture that I can remember I just start to pray until the thoughts and emotions go away and that L/P is how Christ is..
When she is being nasty and laughing at you, in your mind call upon him and start praying for strength to just ignore her and he will help with that he will never leave you nor forsake you it just feels like it but he is still there... have you read the Footprints in the sand....well that is exactly what he does carry us thru those times.
Don't let the enemy win everytime she is mean and nasty by responding exactly the way he wants you to respond and blow it ...Like I said have a Christ like mind....
I am not saying there will not be days that you just can't help yourself and strike back at her,but the more you do this it WILL get better and better....I believe he makes us go this so we can have a closer walk with him...And we do start that process when we cry out to him.First start off by asking for forgivenss for.... yourself
Great job ... keep it up and show the children as you did yesterday that they are more important than your wife right now...let God deal with her..he will start speaking to her...
One more thing have you gone to the website I got from MWG/SF??? It is http://www.rejoiceministries.org It has been so helpful to me and this is how my walk with Christ has grown....lots of scripture in there check it out ok..
again geart job... pat yourself on the back and keep it up... and yes I wish we could talk to each other sometimes or at least have email addresses but those are all no no's and I would hate to get banned from here this has also been a blessing to me especially BND...MWG-S/F one in the same...butterflymom...valentine...cinderellaman... and I could go on and on... the list is long..
