Beth--
I think we have all written that letter, either on paper or in our heads. Just as they have a predictable playbook, I think we may have one, too. The whole process. We just go through it on our own personal timeline.

If you were to send it, I am positive that his mental gymnastics would only twist it to further justify himself. It never ceases to amaze me, but in reality, how would they look in the mirror every morning, otherwise? Maybe they will come to the realization on their own, someday. I think most of them don't.

Are you going through NY/CT?