Karen - I can sooo relate to what you are going through. It just makes me sick when stbx/ow step over the line. ow LOVES to do Mommy stuff for my daughter. It sends me through the roof every time!!!!
They ARE trying to make everything seem so great and wonderful and "normal". See how happy they are and how "worth it" it was to break up a family?? UGH!!! My stbx thinks I'm somehow poisoning D4 against him when in reality she gets mad at him because he keeps leaving her!! They just don't want to see all of the pain they are causing everyone, do they??
They just don't realize how smart the kids are about everything. When they met 'him' because he helped her bring some furniture, they knew better. She told them he was a 'friend', but they weren't dumb. They kept hearing her accidentally calling him babe and it was the six year old that called her on it. She came up with some bullsh*t that she was just so used to calling ME babe, that it was just a habit. She even tried to tell ME that. I kept thinking to myself, "I've got copies of your emails and I've seen your texts and I've heard ya'll voice mails". Lying b*tch. Hasn't called ME that in a YEAR!
They understand way more than they think. It confuses them. It boggles the mind how stupid ass WW's can be. I told mine to D me before she does that to the girls
Sorry, but my kids meeting OM sent me through the roof.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
