I also want to add to this that I've been going through some old threads on the DB board, and it looks like that what people who are successful here tend to have in common is a positive outlook, a willingness to focus on the positives in the situation. I need to try to do this too! \:\)

ITH

Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!