While I was typing my first post I got a text, from the Troll - here it is.
"I just want to apologize for all the bad things I said and done to hurt you and your family. And if you don't want the kids to have anything to do with my baby I don't blame you. I know this apology is not worth much but I'm sorry."
You could have knocked me over with a feather. Here is our exchange. I replied:
"I appreciate your apology even though it doesn't change much. If my kids want to be a part of your babys life, I would never prevent them from it."
She wrote: "Thank You."
I wrote: "Your welcome. Thank you for what you said."
She wrote: "Your welcome"
I wrote: "Why are you saying this now?"
She wrote: "Because I feel bad plus its been a really bad and emotional day for me. I really need to change my ways of life for my daughter now and the baby to come. All the bad things I said to you was out of anger you didn't deserve it."
I wrote: "I hope you are able to make the changes you want to make for yourself as well as your kids. I also said some things to you that I am not proud of. Just so you know, I know it took two for all this to happen. H is the one that owed me better."
She wrote: "I hope so too."
I waited 2 hrs and sent: "You have my number if you ever want to talk."
Probably shouldn't have, but it was all so surreal.
Any thoughts?
Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 09/01/0806:14 AM.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option