He has some anger I am sure. For one of the rare times in my sitch, I have found myself very angry this weekend too. I have been asking myself what would I say if I got a call from her next week? the answer seemed to be,-throw it back in her face.
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Anything I could do better to ease his anger? Last time we actually had a phone conversation, he said he would never be able to forgive me for what I did, and just still had that "angry" voice...any advice/suggestions?[/
How long have you gone without contact?
In my opinion, don't smother him. Ask him to have a sit down with you and you will answer any questions he has. (I think BH stated the same) After, I would give him time.
I know this as a guy. Nothing draws our attention more than when we feel the other is LEAVING US BEHIND. You know a little of how that feels and what he went threw. Maybe it is time to remind him by LRTing a bit.
(I am hoping lrting works for me but this weekend was a heart wrenching killer for me)