How do you look the other way and suppress the anger & hurt that your W is causing by having an A? I find it hard to manage this pain I feel when I see my wife touting her new relationship via her myspace page. She had a pic up with her holding our kids. For some dumb reason i just decided to check it & viola, there is a pic of her & the OM for all the world to see.
Now that I have calmed down & had a rational thought go through my head, I am wondering if she did that on purpose just to provoke me in case I did go visit her site. I already have had a copy of this pic for a couple weeks so not a surprise to me what he looks like but just stunned at the sheer audacity my wife is displaying behind my back.
Getting fed up feeling like a doormat. My wife is basically living off me right now, hardly contributing to paying the bills. Really feeling like it is time to get her to quitclaim on the deed & send her packing so she can get a taste of what life is like on her own. I know I failed in our marriage but I don't feel I deserve the payback I am receiving.
Me/W 39/37 T/M 9/6 S 4, D 2 Bomb 7/17/08 OM confirmed 7/23/08 D Filed 7/25/08 D served 9/17/08