Now, just to add. Many of you KNOW me. You know that, if given the opportunity, I would be happy to have my W back, EVEN after her latest infidelity.

BUT be sure of this. It won't be because I'm a woosey who needs her. Far from it.

I CHOSE to love her, and just like several old girlfriends whom I've not seen in years, I STILL love them in a special way.

Think about it. How many of you can think of a past love, male or female, that you still can honestly say you still 'love'.

Why?

Because love is a choice. And when you choose to love someone it doesn't just 'go away' when you are hurt,angry,confuser, or disturbed.

If you are a DECENT person, it stays for a long time.

If you are a LBS, you're angry and somewhat vindictive. How does that serve you?

For those of us who strive to be 'Christ-Like' we have to ask 'is this what Christ would do?'

For those of us who strive to be 'good and decent' we have to ask 'Am I harming them, or am I taking the higher road and doing no harm?'

For all of us with children, the WAS is at the very least the father / mother of our children.

Even if they are total evil bastards, WE are not required to 'play their game'.

I've quoted this many times. Go watch it again. Be above this.

LEARN!
substitute USSR and US for LBS and WAS

A strange game, the only winning move is not to play.



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