The affair does not need to be brought out. W seems to have been doing a good job of it herself.
MIL said that she gave up hope on W. That she was pissed at her daughter and disagreed with what she was doing. She said something about what happened to the drunk that lived down the road. It was a pretty direct ref to OM. That was before I had talked with W.
I think it is time to pull back again. I do think I pushed a little to hard after the other night. Live and learn.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does