Well...I am checking in. Wife did not go to Mexico because I told her I was against it. Friday night she asked me if i minded if she went to one of her girlfriend's house...no problem she took D7 along. Saturday was spent doing household chores togeehter and Sunday she went to celebrate her mom.s birthday on her side and i went to my nephews' birthday gathering. When she got home, I told her calmly that I love her but I was no longer prepared to sleep in my daughter's bed and come after the dog and the cat as far as her attention goes. I asked her point blank if her feelings had returned to what they were six months or so ago (ie no feelings) because there is an OM in the picture and or he came back. She quickly said no and then said she was too tired to talk....she wants to talk tommorow. I told her that I would not be here when she gets up and she can take the whole day tommorow to think about it. I am not willing to continue sleeping alone and being treated this way. This goes gainst DB principles but enough is enough....either we work at this together or she will have all the freedom and the life that she wants but good old Johnny boy is not hanging around.
