Take care of you first RH. Don't totally ignore your H though. If he initiates a conversation regarding your R you can listen and validate unless it gets deliberately hurtful. Don't contribute to the subject though. Walk away when it starts to cause too much pain. Now is the critical time in your M - if you break down in front of your H he will see the weakness and could use that as more reasoning in his own mind as to why he wants to get away.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
