Hey Sawks, yes I am on FB. I thought I added you as a friend, but I can't be sure. Look for someone named Dan in a striped shirt that's friends with most of this crew.
I understand where you are coming from and I understand what those advising caution are coming from as well. I spent the last 6 hours at my daughter's friend's house visiting with her parents and they have a marriage that anyone would envy. I spoke with my wife and I had to excuse myself for a few minutes in the middle to go out to the car for a little time alone. Life is full of pain and life is full of joy. Even though I've made a decision, I'm second guessing my decision and I'm wondering if I'm right and if I'm as sure as I felt this morning.
I wish for you to find happiness Sawks. Don't let the relief of the pain blind you to the dynamics of the situation or relationship.