I think the in-laws will be fine, they all have had multiple divorces so it's kind of normal for them to do that. And my kids are so sweet they probably will too. And the OW's kids have been through it a few times already so normal for them too. Kind of sad though.
I just had kind of a weird experience. I watched "Diary of a Mad Black Woman" on TBS. It was like watching a movie of my life except I'm not wealthy of course! But the H is a lawyer and he talks to his W like my H talks to me. It was horrible seeing it. Wow! Karen